HANYOYIN DA MACE ZATA IYA RASA BUDURCINTA

HANYOYIN DA MACE ZATA IYA RASA BUDURCINTA 

wata fata ce

dakecikin farjin mace mata shi kuma

fatar ba mai kwari bace sannan tana

yagewa ne da zarar ta samu takura

MACE TANA RASA BUDURCINTA NE

TA WADANNAN HANYOYIN:

-saduwa da namiji

-daukar kaya mai nauyi

-guje-guje

-hawan keke

-hawan doki ko jakki

-mummunar faduwa

-sanya dan yatsa a farji :wannan

kuma ya janyo mutuwar aure da yawa

saboda wannan aiki yana faruwa ga

yan'mata sosai

HAIHUWA: wasu matan ko an sadu

dasu fatar budurcinsu bata yagewa

harsai sun zo wajen haihuwa anan ne

zata yage

                             BUDURCIN YA'MACE NA DA

MATUKAR MUHIMMACI:

ta fuskar zaman takewa da kuma

al'ada: hakan ya sa wasu yan'matan

kan ke a yi musu tiyata domin maido

musu da budurcinsu kafin ranar aure:

     MURFIN BUDURCI murfin budurci

wani murfine da yake tsurowa a

saman farjin mace daidai kan kofar

farjinta yadda ya toshe dakkanin

yankin farji.

Wannan murfi ba nau'i daya bane,

yana da nau'o da yawa. Amma nau'in

da yafi yawa, shine wani murfi mai

huda-huda kewyayya a tsakiyarsa

mata

shi wannan murfi a lokacin da zai

yage wani digo digon jini yana

zubowa,kuma zai zama amarya zataji

zafi, amma zafin ba wani zafi bane na

azo a gani, ya kamata amarya ta jure

wannan dan zafi da zata ji. Amma

akwai wasu mata da nasu murfin ya

banbanta wanda shi lokacin fashewar

baya jini domin yana jawuwa kamar

roba ta yadda zakarin namiji zai iya

wucewa ba tare da ya yaye ba.kuma

baya digar jini bare radadi

akwai wani murfi da yake da ragaraga

kamar rariya, wanda yake fashewa

cikin sauki ba tare da wani zafi ko

radadi ba

takan yiwu,a haifi yariya ba tare da

kofa ko huji ba, a tsakiyar murfin

budurcin taba. Yariya mai irin

wannan murfin budurci, idan ta

balaga ta zo haila sai anyi mata aiki

domin jinin haila ya samu kofar

fitowa

shi murfin budurci bashi da wani

mahimmanci a wajen masana ilimin

halittar dan adam, muhimmancinsa

ya tsaya ne leawai wurin tantanece

yarinya budurci wani tuni ya kau da

budurcin

da fatan samari da yan'mata su gane

ADO: wani abu ne da yake girmama

matsayin dan dama duk lokacin daya

baiyana domin haka kasancewar sa

ga miji ko mace ya zama wajibi

musamman ga ma'aurata da suke

son su girmama zaman rayuwar

auransu cikin sha'awa da kauna

mace ya dace duk lokacin da aka ce

gari ya waye tayi iya kokarin ta bayan

ta kammala aikin gida ta yi wanka ta

shafa mai sannan ta sami kayanta

masu kyau tasa yin hakan shine ya

ke kiyaye mutuncita da kara mata

matsayi a wurin mijinta kuma hakan

na sanya miji ya rika sha'awar

kasancewa da ita ako yaushe. Hakika

ado baya bambanta tsakanin yariya

da matsakaiciyar mace matukar dai

bata haura shekarun kuruciyarta ba

domin ado yana mai da tsuhuwa

yariya haka kuma rashinsa ko kuma

rashin iya shi yana maida yariya

tsohuwa mara kyau a gani sannan

ado yana daya daga cikin abubuwan

da suke motsar da sha'awar jima'i in

na miji

     TUSHEN SAMUWAR JIMA'I

tushen samuwar jima'i shine aure

duk wani jima'i da mace da namiji

zasu yi in dai bata hanyar aure bana

ya zama haramun.

Aure shine ginshikin ginin iyali kuma

shine tubalin al'umma aure na da

tasiri babba wajen cigaban al'umma

kuma rashin sa yana kawo faduwar

al'umma da rashin cigabansu

aure a musulunci wani rukuni ne mai

tsarki wanda ake kulla shido min

samuwar ingantaccen zumuci

tsakanin ma'aurata

a cikin aure akwai hakkoki da

wajibobi wanda suke wajabta lada ko

azaba a gurin ubangiji (Sw) wannan

kulli mai tsarki lokacin da aka kulla

shi a karka shin dokoki da tsari

             ABIN LURA:

a wasu lokuta murfin

budurci na tsagewa ko fashewa, ba

tare da zakari ya shiga farji mace ba,

hakan na faruwa ne idan budurwa ta

sami tsautsayi musamman garin

hawa keke ko fadawa kan wani abu

kuma murfin budurci na fashe wa ta

sanadin yarintar yariya ta hanyar

wasa kamar ta rika sanya dan ya

tsanta cikin farjin ta sannan yana

fashewa ta hanyar daga wani abu

mai nauyi. Kamar yadda al'ada tazo

dashi tun fil'azal shi murfin budurci

ke bai yanar tsarkin budurwa da

kuma nunar da cikar budurci